Friday, July 4, 2014

Strapon Instruction Halfway Point

These are the first 3 pictures in the Strapon Instruction special.  They walk the reader, step by step, through the process of strapon play, explain the philosophy behind strapon play, and provide little tips.  The finished product is in the links, and the text is below.

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Intro and Philosophy
Rimming
Fingering/Prostate Massage

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008_3 - Our Goddess has, quite clearly, instructed us to dominate our boys, and keep them forever in a state of submission.  This is done to protect them from their own impulses, and to instill in them the virtues of integrity, selflessness, and obedience.  The act of being penetrated instantly places a boy in a position of humility and submission.  This shouldn't his first sexual experience, but it is most definitely a ritual that *must* be undertaken.  Before you can even start the ritual, you need to purchase the strapon.  At the Temple, we have a number of different harnesses that you can try on and borrow, but you might want to purchase one for yourself.  Most Temples have a relationship with a local sex shop, so you can get a discount.  The second consideration is the dildo.  It needs to be small at first, so you don't hurt your baby.  Don't worry, it's not the size of the dildo that matters, it's the penetration itself, the act of taking him and making him yours, that reinforces the dominance, and makes the ritual work.  Pick one that's thin and short, and try it on yourself first.  Obviously, the first step in the ritual is washing.  Make sure he's clean, inside and out.

semeZ009_1_l - Aren't you glad he's clean?  This part of the ritual has a very specific purpose, and really shouldn't be skipped.  The first reason is to assure him that he is loved.  There is no body part more neglected and shamed than the anus, and you need to make sure that your baby understands that you adore every single part of him.  The second reason is much more practical.  Rimming your little lover's anus will help him to relax, and his relaxation is necessary, to ensure that he isn't hurt during the ritual.  Some of our sisters will have their baby smoke a bit of marijuana or drink a small glass of wine before they start this ritual.  We prefer using mild indica strains of marijuana, because alcohol sometimes goes right through these boys.  These are helpers, though, they are not replacements for this step.  You have to go slow here, and work your way from small insertions to larger ones.  Your tongue is quite warm, and wet, and it really does feel amazing for him.  You should start by kissing the entire area, starting from his cock, moving down to his balls, perineum, and finally, his anus.  You may want to kiss his thighs and cheeks as well.  Make sure that he knows that this is a ritual, and not a punishment, and make sure that he is *relaxed*.  Lick in a circular motion, and when he opens up, work your tongue inside.  Use lots of saliva.  Aren't you glad he's *clean*?

002_4 - Now it's time for the real lubricant.  Practice on yourself to find a lubricant that works well, you'll need a lot for his first time.  Keep in mind that certain lubricants work better when combined with water, or saliva.  If you were able to get your tongue in, he's ready for a finger.  Lay him down in a comfortable position, and *slowly*, work a finger in.  We suggest using either your index finger or middle finger.  There are two goals here.  The first goal is to open him up a little bit more, and get him more ready for your strapon.  The second goal is to find his prostate.  The prostate is like a magic little fun button when it comes to anal play with boys.  They're small, so you won't have to reach too far, and you'll probably know when you've found it.  He might moan, he might gasp, he might start telling you that he has to pee.  If it's the last one, you *know* you've found it.  Make sure he's not gagged.  Bound is okay, but not gagged.  You want to be able to communicate with him.  When you find his prostate, you can start massaging it.  The best way we've found is to curl your finger slightly into his prostate, as if you were making a "come here" motion.  The picture is for demonstration, you can be in any position when you're doing this.  You can sit him on your lap, have him bent over, or, our personal favorite, lie next to him to kiss him and whisper in his ear.  As he opens, you can add more fingers, but go slowly, and be careful.  He *is* small, so one might be enough.  

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